Wednesday, May 29, 2013

SAWASDEE KA

New York to Bangkok 
May 23, 2013 – May 25, 2013

Hello! Or as they say in Thai, sawasdee ka! It's been a while since my last trip post, but for good reason. I've been saving up to take my version of the trip of a lifetime. 
For three years I’ve been saving to make my biggest dream trip a reality: Traveling to Thailand to work hands on with elephants. You see, I named my blog "Singing with Elephants" for a very specific reason. I love to sing and I am extremely passionate about elephants. It only made sense to combine the two. One day I would travel to Thailand and sing with the elephants.

Well, that dream is about to become a reality.
It wasn’t without a lot of hard work and saving, let me tell you. I took on lots of extra jobs and made some fun career turns in the process just to make this happen. Last year I tried my hand at music directing a community theater production and found I was pretty decent at it and had a really great time doing it. I also turned semi-pro photographer. Every bit of extra money went right into my travel fund. And here we are, about to board our Emirates flight to Bangkok via Dubai. I couldn’t be more excited.
I’ve literally been planning the trip for years and had the basic itinerary all laid out way ahead of time in a notebook. All I needed to do was work out the dates and logistics, which wasn’t hard to do. The goal was to spend a few days in Bangkok, a week at Elephant Stay in Ayutthaya, and the rest of the trip on the beaches of Phuket. Sounds perfect. 
I have never flown Emirates before, and I must say, it’s a lovely airline. The flight attendants are from all over the world, speaking a variety of different languages to fulfill the needs of the passengers. The seats were fairly comfortable, they offered lots of free movies to watch on the flight, and the food was decent, for airline food, anyways. Our seat mate was a really nice girl around our age, originally from India, who works in Kentucky for a printer technology company. She was on her way home to visit her family, as her sister was going to be proposed to and her future fiancĂ© wanted to surprise her with a visit from all her family members. So sweet! Having just gotten engaged, myself, I’m a sucker for a proposal story.
The one problem with the flight is that it was filled with passengers from the land deodorant forgot. Lots and lots of interesting smells kept walking by… 
Our first flight was just under 13 hours long. My hope had been to sleep for most of it, since we took off at 11pm, but there were so many new movies available that I hadn’t seen that I stayed up for most of the flight watching movies. We had a layover in Dubai for a few hours, where I realized that my cell phone was not set up properly for international use. I had signed up for everything with Verizon, but they never quite completed the process on their end. Luckily, there was free wifi available in the Dubai airport, and I was able to chat with an online Verizon rep, who got everything up and running.
After that Miriam and I decided to have a look around the airport to find something to eat for dinner. When I saw McDonald’s I got really excited. When we had been in Egypt a few years ago, my favorite meal was the McDonald’s McArabia, a special flat bread wrap not available in the US. I had my fingers crossed that the McDonald’s in Dubai would have the same sandwich, since it’s in the same area of the world, relatively, and I was not disappointed! Happiness in a sandwich. And, luckily, they took US dollars, since we didn’t have the UAE currency. 
Excitedly eating my McArabia
Miriam being good and eating a salad

Our next flight was a little over 6 hours long, and my goal, again, was to sleep through it, since this flight was also at 11pm (UAE time). Alas, I was having issues sleeping, mostly because my backside was so sore from all the sitting I did on the last flight, so I ended up sleeping for maybe two hours, and the rest of the time I watched movies and tried to get everything ready for our arrival into Bangkok (i.e. figuring out how to get to our hotel from the airport).

Trying to take a picture to show how tired we are, and we got this unexpected photobomb. Awesome.

Looking for our hotel's street on the map
Getting through customs was a breeze, and we discovered that we were not required to get a visa, so we got our passports stamped, grabbed our luggage, exchanged our money, and headed to the airport rail link that would take us directly into the city. 
It was just our luck that the non-stop express train that would take us directly to the last stop was arriving in less than five minutes. We got our tokens and jumped on the nearly empty, air conditioned train and rode the 24 minute ride directly into Bangkok. Conveniently, the air rail link took us to the Phaya Thai stop, which is a direct link to the Sky Train (one of Bangkok’s modes of public transportation), but more importantly, this stop was also a five minute walk to our hotel. Not knowing exactly where our hotel was, we did get a little lost in that we did not cross the street at the opportune time and ended up walking about ten minutes out of our way. Oh well. 

Miriam on the express air rail link 
Our train token
We were staying at the True Siam Boutique Hotel, tucked away down an alleyway. It’s a relatively new hotel and dirt cheap, especially for being right in the heart of Bangkok. We booked directly through their website and paid $35 a night for a room that was really big and clean and brilliantly located in the center of the train lines.


We got into Bangkok a lot faster than I anticipated and were at our hotel by 10:30am. Check in wasn’t technically until 2pm, and the front desk staff told us our room wasn’t ready quite yet but that it would be in about a half hour, so we opted to leave our luggage chained up by the front desk and took a stroll around the neighborhood. We went on down to the 7 Eleven to pick up some much needed water (it was really hot and humid), and by then our room was ready so we headed back to the hotel.

Miriam having fun with the statue outside the hotel. 

Giant cup of prawns found along our walk. 
Chang is Thai for elephant. I gladly purchased that brand of water. 
We found a cute little coffee shop along the way, too. 
Our room at True Siam. 
The colorful Thai money
After 22 hours of traveling we couldn’t wait to shower and change. And, trying to combat our jet lag, we headed straight out the door to see what Bangkok had to offer. Being New Yorkers, the obvious choice for us was to take the Sky Train everywhere we wanted to go, so we headed to the station and bought an unlimited day pass for 130 Baht, the equivalent to about $4 US. We didn’t think we would really need the day pass, but it seemed easier than having to buy a new fare every time, especially since you had to pay based on the distance you were traveling, so the day pass we got.
The Sky Train is an elevated train that runs on two different lines to different points of the city. It’s a lovely, air conditioned train that offers really fun views of Bangkok. Our plan was to hit up the Chatuchak Weekend Market, a giant market comparable to Cairo’s Khan el-Khalili, selling everything you could imagine, from souvenirs and clothing, to pets and food. Coming at it from the Sky Train was amazing because we could look out and see the rows and rows of tin roofs and get an idea of just how large this market is.
The market only fully operates on the weekends, which was why I planned our ventures into Bangkok for the weekend. I really wanted to see what this market had to offer. The only problem with that plan was that we wanted to buy all sorts of souvenirs, but having just gotten into Thailand, we didn’t know exactly what we were looking for.

Rooftops of the market from the Sky Train 
Street vendors 

Thai cowboy playing the banjo. Amazing. 


Inside the market. 
Miriam getting a frozen banana dipped in chocolate and rolled in almonds. Delicious. 


Chatuchak Market has many outdoor sections, as well as a number of very hot and steamy inside sections. We took our time wandering from the various stalls both inside and out, finding items we liked and bargaining the price. A friend of mine from high school lives in Bangkok now and he gave me some pointers for the market, like cutting their price in half and then bargaining up from there, but I wasn’t very good at that. I did get some good deals, though. The most amusing thing was that most of the clothes were a one-size-fits-all. Miriam and I each got a pair of elephant pants that we need to roll up at the waist, as they hang really low, but they only cost us a couple dollars, so we didn’t mind. I also ended up buying a really pretty dress for only $9. Luckily it fit, since I wasn’t allowed to try anything on—being that everyone in that market is hot and sweaty, trying clothes on, even over other clothes, was frowned upon. We also picked up a few gifts along the way.

Thai iced tea happiness. 
I was a happy camper when we stopped at one of the ice cream stalls and tried traditional Thai ice cream served in a hot dog bun. Miriam got the Thai milk tea ice cream and I got the coconut ice cream. Both were delicious and quite refreshing—and, better yet, they cost us 25 Baht (around 75 cents). We decided against eating anything for lunch, as all the street vendors were serving hot food, and the idea of putting hot food into our hot bodies was not appetizing, so we filled up on ice cream and cold drinks. I even treated myself to a Thai milk tea, one of my favorite things, and something I haven’t had since I joined Weight Watchers ten months ago. It was well worth the wait.
After four and a half hours, we were exhausted and had seen most of the market, so we took our purchases and shuffled to the Sky Train. By the time we made it back to the hotel, we could barely keep our eyes open. After a quick shower and nap, we decided that venturing out for dinner was going to be impossible, so we kept it simple and went to the hotel restaurant.
The restaurant was pretty much empty, and the menu wasn’t much to write home about, but it sufficed. We were practically falling asleep at the table, so it didn’t make much difference anyway. I was mortified to discover a shelf full of ET dolls on display (I’m petrified of ET), and we were amused that the television in the restaurant was playing The Voice Thailand—we hadn’t realized The Voice had a Thai version!
All in all, the meal cost us a couple dollars US; Miriam had a spaghetti dish and I, a chicken fried rice. Once finished we fell straight into bed, even though it was only 8:30. We figured we would be up bright and early to start our tours of the various wats and palaces…apparently bright and early meant 2 am…dang jet lag.

The tired travelers in Chatuchak Park.

Monday, December 31, 2012

IF IT COULD GO WRONG IT DID


Rhinelander, WI
June 23-26, 2012

As I stated in my last post, I scheduled a two-appointment dental procedure in my hometown because flying home twice for both appointments was cheaper than getting the procedure done in NYC.
My first trip home was a huge success and a lot of fun. I got to see all sorts of relatives on my mom’s side of the family at my cousin’s graduation party and play a lot with my Alaskan nephews. This second trip I scheduled at the same time as another cousin’s wedding, a cousin on my dad’s side of the family, meaning I would get the chance to see the other side of my family, too. I was really excited. Then a little storm happened that changed the way everything would go...

I was set to fly out on Saturday morning, a direct flight to Milwaukee, Wisconsin, where my brother would be picking me up and we would go straight to the wedding in Appleton, Wisconsin, together. Friday afternoon the skies started darkening and suddenly unleashed a terrible thunderstorm. It lasted for all of one hour. I was still at my office when I got the email that my flight for Saturday morning had been canceled. Here is the saga that ensued: 

1. Delta canceled my Saturday morning flight and couldn't rebook me until Sunday. Until Sunday! My cousin's wedding was on Saturday. My brother was only in Wisconsin for Saturday. I needed to be there on Saturday. The woman I spoke with told me there was no way to get me on a flight and refused to look at neighboring airports to get me on another flight. Apparently, getting customers to their destinations is not their top priority. Saturday morning I tried calling again and spoke to a much more sympathetic person at Delta, who said she wished I had called her sooner because she could have easily gotten me on a flight out of Newark. At this point I officially hated Delta.
2. As a result of Delta’s incompetence, I missed my cousin's wedding, seeing some of my dad's family for the first time in about five years, and seeing my brother and 90 year old grandmother-- the one and only day this year I was going to see either of them.
3. When I went to check in for my new Sunday flight on Saturday, I noticed that the connecting flight had magically disappeared from my itinerary, meaning I was no longer on the flight that would get me to my new destination of Wausau, Wisconsin. Another one hour phone call with Delta.
4. This is most likely too much information, but when I finally made it home, I went to the bathroom, pulled up my underwear, and it ripped apart in my hands (that made me laugh).
5. I forgot deodorant.
6. I had sent a text to my mom on Thursday to remind her to pick me up more cheese curds from my favorite local place (they get new cheese curds on Thursdays), but she didn't go, and they were sold out by the time I got there on Sunday.
7. I went to the dentist (the real reason I flew back home) to get my crown put on and it didn't fit. It. Didn’t. Fit. I cried and cursed, as only a New Yorker can do, which probably shocked the Midwestern ears of the dental office. As a result, they had to make another one for me and ship it to my dentist in New York.
8. The zipper on my pants broke apart in my hands, which was the final straw that sent me over the edge (at which point my mom grabbed her purse and dragged me into Kohl’s to buy me new clothes...).
9. On my return home a mere two days later, my Delta app wouldn't give me e-boarding passes for my flights, so I was nervous I was being bumped (I wasn't, but I still needed to print tickets at the kiosk in the airport-- kind of defeats the purpose of having the app).
10. On my flight out of Wisconsin I was seated directly in front of a man in handcuffs and his police detail. And, when prompted by his police detail with, "In the event of an emergency..." his response was, "Let me die." Awesome.


11. Once I landed at Newark, I stopped by the bathroom before leaving the airport, just missing the shuttle bus back to NYC. The next bus, which should have come in 25minutes, didn't come for over an hour.
12. Most of the Lincoln Tunnel was closed for construction (hence the really late bus), which caused a major delay in traffic. I got home at 2:15am. And got up for work the next day.

It's an amusing story to tell, so I'll give it that.

All in all, I was home for a total of two and a half days. I was able to squeeze my nephews and relax with my family, eat deep fried cheese curds and brats, watch my nephew catch fish at my aunt and uncle’s cabin (and throw them back), and, of course, have a bonfire. Short and bittersweet, but lovely to be home, nonetheless.








IT'S ALL RELATIVE


Rhinelander, WI
June 6-10, 2012

I try to make it home at least once a year. Catching up with the family and relaxing in the wilderness is a great escape from living in NYC. And since my sister lives in Alaska and we so rarely get to see each other, it’s important to plan our trips home accordingly.
So when my sister, who is a stay-at-home-mom to two rambunctious toddlers, announced she would be spending the month of June in the lower-48, I marked my calendar.
Now, it just so happened that my NYC dentist gave me the awesome news that I was in need of a very expensive crown. When he told me the cost of said crown, it took all I had to not openly weep in his office-- let’s just say it was four months rent and move on. How in the world could I afford that with the lame dental insurance I have?? I couldn’t. So I did what any child would do, and I called my mom.
She found out how much a crown would cost at my family dentist in my hometown. I couldn’t believe it, so I called the office myself. The woman I spoke with said I would need to come in for two visits approximately two weeks apart. Adding their estimate to the cost of two flights home, I realized that it was cheaper (yes, cheaper!) to fly home TWICE than to get the work done in NYC, and I would get the added bonus of visiting with my family and playing with my nephews for a good chunk of June.
Two trips home, if planned accordingly, also meant that I could attend my cousin’s graduation party and hang out with my mom’s family during the first visit and attend a cousin's wedding on my dad's side of the family, hanging out with that side of the family  during the second visit. I was really excited! So I booked my flights (the first trip via New Orleans) and made my appointments.

After a really fun trip to New Orleans, I was on my flight to Wisconsin. I wasn’t sure who would be picking me up at the airport, so I kept my eyes peeled and was rewarded with the sight of two little boys chasing each other around the waiting area. My nephews! 


After squeezing them both and greeting my sister and my dad, we were off to Sam’s Club. Of course. What would a trip home be without a visit to Sam’s Club where I could buy a giant block of Wisconsin cheddar cheese?
Goofing with my nephew, Jackson
Then it was time to get home so I could play with my nephews properly and try to unwind from my morning of travel. (Might I take this moment to mention that stay-at-home-parents get a lot of kudos from me-- after spending quality time with those two boys, I was so exhausted and ready to hand them back to their mother.)
I went to bed early because my dentist appointment was right away at 8am the next morning-- I had the wild notion that I would want to get the appointment out of the way so that I would have the rest of the day for fun, forgetting that sleep is also important...and fun... Anyways, so I dropped my mom off at her office and made my way to the dentist. Half the office still remembered me and all wanted to know how life in the Big Apple was treating me. It was like one big happy reunion, and then it was time to get down to business. A little over an hour later I had a temporary crown and was off to pick my mom up (half day!).
Before going home I had to stop at my favorite little cheese curd place, Kids’ Korner Pizza, where every Thursday they get a fresh delivery of cheese curds. It just happened to be Thursday, so I was ready to stock up on some cheese!

Then it was time for my sister and me to go for a walk and enjoy the outdoors. She gets plenty of that, living in Alaska, but wilderness is not the easiest to come by in NYC, so off we went down our favorite path, a road right near our house that we used to travel a lot as kids, either running, walking, or riding our bikes.


Dear Photograph
One of my goals whilst visiting the family home was to dig out old family photos and recreate them like the Dear Photograph blog. I was so enthralled with the idea presented in Dear Photograph that I had to try it myself, but rather than just bringing a photograph back to its original location, I wanted to recreate the images in modern times. I enlisted the help of my mom and my sister and put her youngest child to work, too. It was a lot of fun and was so great to look back at the old photographs.
That evening we invited any available family member to come on over to our place for a bonfire and s’mores. Any time you get my family around a campfire, you know that fun will ensue. A couple of my aunts stopped over, along with one of my cousins, and we stayed up until the moon was high in the sky, roasting marshmallows, telling stories, and laughing until we could barely contain ourselves. I love nights like those.



Friday morning proved to be dreary and rainy, but as soon as the weather started to clear, my sister and I hopped in the car with my grandparents and my Aunt Tina, and we made our way to Hoggie Doggie’s Snack Shack in Minocqua, a seasonal, outdoor eatery, home to delicious hot dogs (if you couldn’t guess), brats, burgers, and, of course, deep fried cheese curds. It’s one of my grandmother’s favorite places, and she couldn’t wait to take us there.


Knowing I would be having brats at a cookout over the weekend, I opted to try the “Chicago Style” Vienna dog, and I couldn’t turn down the chance at deep fried cheese curds. We were able to find a dry table in a gazebo, and enjoyed a delicious lunch and great conversation. Hanging out with grandparents is a luxury many of us take for granted, but when you live far away like I do, it’s such a treat.
Once back from Minocqua, the sun finally made its way out and we were able to take my oldest nephew, Jackson, to our favorite swimming hole, Black Lake. The water was freezing! Once we were in it, it wasn’t so bad, but it did take some getting used to-- the beginning of June is early for swimming in northern Wisconsin. Jackson wasn’t too fond of the idea of being wet, but he certainly enjoyed watching us throw ourselves into the water for his enjoyment.

The traditional thing to do in Wisconsin on a Friday night is the Friday Night Fish Fry. And, being Friday night, we weren’t going to pass up the opportunity. We debated which fish fry to hit up, and finally decided on the Al-Gen Dinner Club. I used to take part in the “all you can eat fried fish” option, with unlimited servings of potato salad, cole slaw, and french fries (green vegetables, anyone??), but I was trying to eat healthy so I opted for the one serving of broiled fish, which was delicious. However, when I asked for a side salad, they looked at me like I was crazy. “It comes with potato salad. Is that what you mean by salad?” Um, yeah...The potato salad and cole slaw were so creamy I couldn’t eat more than a forkful, so I had my deliciously prepared broiled fish and called it a night. I guess I’m no longer suited for Wisconsin dining-- I need some greens!
Jackson, Grandpa, and the carved bear at the Al-Gen
After dinner I said goodbye to my family and headed over to a pub called Bugsy’s to grab drinks with a couple of my girlfriends. You know you’ve got great friends when it takes no time at all to catch up and it’s as if you haven’t been apart for months and months. There were a lot of bands playing in the area, so the bar we were at was dead, which was great for us. It was calm and quiet and we could actually have fun conversations over drinks without yelling. Loved it! As a result, I stayed out longer than anticipated and felt like I was in college again. 
The next day was my cousin Hope’s high school graduation party/cookout. It was so much fun because almost everyone from my mom’s side of the family was there, so I was able to catch up with aunts, uncles, and cousins I haven’t seen in a really long time. It was the perfect sunny day, too, so we all soaked up the sun and played games in the yard. That’s something I certainly miss, living in New York. I have no yard and no grill, which means no cookouts. It’s always nice to go home during the summer just for those cookouts. Oh, and bonfires. Cookouts and bonfires. And family, of course. Quintessential country living.
Speaking of bonfires, it was my last night in Rhinelander, and not wanting to end the party so soon, we invited everyone over to my parents’ place for one more bonfire before I headed back to New York. We had a bigger turnout than our bonfire earlier in the week since so many people were in town for the graduation party, which meant a much more raucous night. Ah, the perfect way to end my trip.
The next day I spent the day with my family, playing with my nephews, and promising to see them in a few weeks. 
Who would have thought that the trip from hell was looming...

Hodag Country, Rhinelander, Wisconsin